I hope everyone had a year filled with love and joy. We certainly have much to be thankful for this year, that is, except for brain cancer. That part sucked. #notblessed. But besides that, however, everything else was really good. And nobody else went to the emergency room or was diagnosed with a terminal illness. #blessed.
We had a very productive year on social media. We had way more ‘likes’ compared to previous years. Cancer works wonders for ‘likes.’ Who doesn’t like something terrible (for somebody else)? We have been able to carefully cultivate a very satisfactory and wholesome image on Facebook.
We started the year staying around Grand Rapids because I had chemotherapy and radiation every day. That didn’t suck that bad because radiation only took about 10 minutes, and I had the rest of the day free for to watch movies and sleep. But then I went back to work part time, so that prolonged vacation ended.
I was voted West Michigan Heart Physician of the Year (POTY) in 2014, and then BAM!, cancer hit in late 2015. Our group had officially joined Spectrum in early 2015, so I won the equivalent FMHVI Clinical Excellence Award late last year. 2016 is still up in the air, but I can see trends. The people want change. Drain the swamp. “Lock him up,” they say for sending patient information over Gmail in 2010. I get it. I am yesterday’s story.
Allison had a marvelous year. She was a safety for Ella’s kindergarten class, and all the Alguires agreed she was the best safety at Breton Downs Elementary. Her swimming went well, almost qualifying for state in several events in the spring, and actually qualifying in the summer. These state cuts are pretty ridiculous, so that felt like a pretty big accomplishment. I certainly was not that fast in 6th grade.
Connor is the only boy, so his achievements are always blown out of proportion. He can watch his iPad for hours at a time, never being distracted by family life around him. I think he is going to do very well without a father #adaptable. He continues to play soccer with a skill set that his dad never had. I can still beat him in one on one sports based on pure size, but it is getting closer.
Queen Elizabeth graces us with her presence at times. She is too sweet to be an effective queen, but she does have her devious streak that I’m cultivating. She cannot win direct battles against her brother, but she is figuring out how to play around the rules when nobody is watching. Good for you.
Mia had a big year of change. Over the year, she left her crib, learned to scooter pretty fast, ride a bike with training wheels, and started preschool. She also threw out her pacifiers and handled it pretty well. We offered to get her a Daniel Tiger stuffed animal if she threw out her pacies, and 2 minutes later they were all in the garbage. Deal sealed, although we are still finding extra in odd places.
Miley had a rough year as well. She totally hit a wall in the Doggie Dash in early June, and tore her ACL in August. The vet gave the option of surgery or rest. Both are considered equivalent, so we chose rest since it costs much less. She is still hobbling around a bit, and this year really felt like she aged those 7 dog years.
For Staci and me, things could not be better. The kids help, our long-term relationship helps. She is the glue in the family, and Team Craig’s actual captain. She got the “Alguire of the Year” award in our house for the 15th straight year. We rarely even talk about old girlfriends or boyfriends anymore. We do talk about future options for her, and I really try to talk her up around some of my male friends. I have given her a short list of my potential replacements that I approve of, but I will not share here. Most of them are still married, but a lot of things can change in a year.
We ring in 2017 with only one resolution, Alive in 2018!
Figure: Self-explanatory. Merry Christmas and Happy Holidays!
Dear Craig and family….I have no words. This is indeed a very sobering look at what you are dealing with and breaks my heart for all of you. Praying each and every day that God provides a miracle.
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Thanks for your note, Carol. Each day is filled with lots of fun and laughter at our house (and the usual kid drama as well). I can’t say we dwell on it as a family after I put my thoughts out on this blog every few weeks. I’ll take a miracle. So far, it has been pretty close to that!
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Really enjoyed your letter.with all the updates on you and fam.. it certainly has been a challenging year for all of you and I so admire how you all support each other, especially thru the uncertain times. #blessedfamily.
My daily prayers continue #believeinmiracles.
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Thanks, Sandee. So far, it has been a near miracle.
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Dear Alguires,
What a beautiful family picture! A perfect moment in time. Your Aunt Elaine will love this when I copy it for her. Sending you our caring thoughts and ginormous hopes and prayers for a new year of health and happy days, Em and Bob
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Thanks again for the humor and beautiful family updates. But I almost choked on my Diet Coke when I read that Conner will do fine without a father. Don’t kid yourself- he has got a pretty awesome Dad and you better be there for him and all of the kids. Staci, on the other hand, I would have to see the list of replacements. Is Jeff Decker on there? Ok just kidding, but it truly is hard for those of us not yet diagnosed with anything possibly terminal to understand what it must be like to think of life if I’m here to enjoy it verses the alternative. But watching you fight this and knowing all of the people praying for you I feel you have a long life to plan for. Wishing your family a wonderful Christmas and many many more to come. Keep up the good fight.
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Thanks. The hardest part is thinking about the kids and Staci without me. I’m just greedy, and looking forward to much more time. What I wrote was just an extreme and coldest version of a particular scenario. Probably a bit much for my parents to read.
And the list is totally classified, but Jeff would do for my platonic life partner for sure!
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You have a beautiful family and have to be so proud! Continued in my prayers. As my “save the Craig cells” bracelet continues to fade, I pray that this is a sign the cancer is fading as well! #i’mwithcraig
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Nature. Beauty. Gratitude.
4:40 start point to watch…..EXCELLENT!!
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I’ll check it out soon!
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Could not find a like to hit so? i am writing my like to keep your score up. I can not teaf this. zthe letters are tiny ony screen. Hope they gey better in translation. I am a good ditter if you ever need one when you ate in the Haven.
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Craig! I am banking on you being here a very long time. My brother Jason took Temodar for a long time, when it first came out I think. He was only supposed to live one year. And it’s been 17. Love you!
PS – if you survived IM residency at UM (and chief year!), you will survive anything. #teamcraig
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👍😉. My wife always likes to hear about your brother.
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craig – i loved this post – your dark humor mixed with the truth which necessarily contains elements of fear as well as hope. the two can coexist for sure, we’re only human. i also love what you said above about our stories in another post above- how awesome to tell it in your own voice so everyone you love can come here to hear it whenever they want ❤
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